The road to love goes through being successful, A guide to being successful!; Fuck them and AFL: part 2
It sounds like you have a lot of thoughts and feelings about the impact of shame and guilt on our lives, and how it can shape our perceptions and decisions. You seem to be advocating for a different approach, such as accepting, loving, forgiving, or "F*ck them and AFL." You also mention procrastination as a form of self-punishment, and the idea that some people may feel "untouched" and relatively free from societal expectations and rules. Overall, it seems like you're making a case for being more self-aware and mindful of the ways in which societal norms and expectations can shape our thoughts, feelings, and actions.
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Hey there,
I am still contemplating how much I should focus on the matter of shame. The question it is not of its importance. But of the diversity of its way to dominating somebodies life. My whole life, shame-guilt potential shaped my life decisions, and the revelation of the magnitude left me aghast For this reason, I plan to keep going on the same lines for a bit more.
I do not know how to stress it enough of its importance. I endanger of course at this point, to sound like an obsessed neurotic person who all he sees is guilt! Alas, given my necessity for anonymity, which of course is a sign of obsession, I am afraid is a matter of trust on my words and my facts how much of a lunatic and sane I am. There is no shame to rely on your judgment and not your prejudice! one could argue at least...
Before I go on the hunt for some arguments, I would like here to examine a hypothesis! Imagine that there is something we really do not want to see! Imagine we stubbornly will go to any extent to avoid seeing that thing! Which thing you may ask? The thing we do not want to see, name it to talk about! Because it makes us so embarrassed! My god, that our cheeks do not even blush, we just froze in terror in the thought of that Voldemort thing.
hmm... Please, here I would like you to try something! Think of a personal experience that makes you very shameful... it doesn't have to be something very important! One personal experience for example for me it was when I accidentally ate the salad of a guy with OCD on micro-phobia. Today, it's more like a story to joke about, but the shouting of that day... makes me still trying to forget it... Forget?
That's what shame does! Things that have been touched by guilt trade, we try to hide them from everyone else. Then we try to hide them from ourselves... and then we succeed to hide it from our consciousness! Suddenly we do things, we do not notice... cause our brain hides it from us! It literally doe that! Of course, here one could assume, that is a personal experience that I generalize! Sensible thought, but I have not encountered a human being that doesn't do so... yet!
I try to point out, that Shame-Guilt-Fear, hmm, S-Matrix, I will call it. The S-matrix modifies our perception ability and especially to be able to observe truthfully ourselves! The S-matrix, or alienation as it is called by Marx, it enters within. We alienate with our selves! We feel so much of guilt that we feel uncomfortable even with ourselves! And that's ok! We can change that! None needs to know at the moment! We are safe.
Here it's the rule number 2! Accept, love, forgive, or Fuck them and AFL! The alternative, at least for me, it was self-punishment! What else could be the solution for a system that is based on treat and punishment? Today, I will not argue how our justice system should work! But I incline towards Norway.
However, I will argue about how this system is not working in our everyday lives! Because since childhood, we are used to a treat/punishment for good and bad things we do! At least some of us... Hence, we are not ready to accept good things that could happen in our life or trying to equate the sense of guilt we carry with self-punishment routines. One self-punishment routine, it's the procrastination, S-matrix also hides how the procrastination will result in my life, depriving me of time and resources!
Of course, such a system does have it's golden boys! Some people got the confirmation from their closed society, rose to become stars... or somebody! Hence they walked into the ranking of 4.7 stars (I am referring to black mirror episode, Nosedive, Genious!). There they feel untouched and relatively free... like a wild animal that got outside S-matrix. I guess to live in a system without being self-aware of the system it's one way to define a lesser mind, an animal. I am not calling those people animals! But I think it's a rational conclusion to sympathize that those people suddenly lived in a new society, a new garden, an invisible wall changing their lives. None was prepared what exactly and why... but with much fewer rules and so many new ones. Hence they end up being... hmm full of themselves. Feeling like society does love and praise them, they have none to justify or excuse themselves.
Can you though convince someone that he is still a human when a whole society is praising them? Hard... some were risen by their good works, some out of self-justification and people who believed in that... like Donald Trump. Here I recommend you to listen to the Hercules love affair, blind!
But again this position is not self-sustained, a ruler needs someone to give him authority... you are the one that names the king with the power... and there is the second madness... who is the ruler and who is the servant?
Big discussion! Furthermore, it will illuminate the system we live now... the S-matrix! But let's focus on our alternative! Our way out pill! If we pull ourselves from this trading system and instead of using confirmation currency we use AFL we are free! oh yes! We can see the whole of us! We won't be afraid or ashamed! And when we are, we will accept it, love that part and forgive it. We can examine if we want to change it or not. But such decisions should be based on ourselves needs and not on what other people want. Why? Because other people at this point are susceptible to S-matrix. S-matrix has a suppressing momentum for its individuals! It's like every molecule of a body, every node of a neural network, the basic digit of an ensemble is suppressed, does not find its true potential.
Not even in a productive way I am afraid. It doesn't produce more farmers or doctors because society needs them. Produces introverted isolated individuals that do isolate even within themselves. We are social creatures! I do not imply a communist society or a society without the need for privacy! On the contrary, privacy should be a space that we communicate with ourselves and not find shelter away from everyone else, including ourselves.
The S-matrix affects everyone from small to big interactions. And here I will start concluding this article! Our brains magnificent computers provided by nature! With adaptivity to outside experience to reach more efficient states of processing! But this complexity is described again by simple decision making routines! Big problems of which toothpaste you should buy reflect on the work you do, on the person you love on the ensemble of allowing yourself to be happy!
Indeed! the same criterion of your toothpaste choice or that you are reading/listening to this text right now is connected with how much you allow yourself to reach the eudaimonic state! Well if I am the appropriate agent... time will show, but I truly wish these thoughts are to everyone benefits. Even f they are not, I presume they can help how things should not be seen! Hence, it's a win-win situation. But careful... win-win is based on trade, but AFL just is open to discussion!
Hence my dear, fuck the S-matrix! Fuck this shit! Cause you can talk with yourself anytime, allow to see the whole of you! Reveal to your eyes all the sit backs your place to keep yourself down. Not in one go... take your time! it is ok! Our brains can take so much emotion! Find your way to trust yourself! And if you do trust yourself already, help your friends and the rest of society.
When we trust ourselves more we will be able to trust what other people can do and can not do for us! How a society, an interconnected network that passes information through every node, like yourself! will get better if the nodes themselves do not become better? By accepting loving and forgiving ourselves we will make a quantifiable difference to our lives. The thing we need! For some, it could be money and fame, but even then it will be the creativity and just money and fame will be the bonus! Cause you walk aware of the new garden... you won't be a wild animal, but a human, a child that just wants to play and paint!
I trust me hence I know how to trust you!
Love
Adam.
Hey there,
I am still contemplating how much I should focus on the matter of shame. The question it is not of its importance. But of the diversity of its way to dominating somebodies life. My whole life, shame-guilt potential shaped my life decisions, and the revelation of the magnitude left me aghast For this reason, I plan to keep going on the same lines for a bit more.
I do not know how to stress it enough of its importance. I endanger of course at this point, to sound like an obsessed neurotic person who all he sees is guilt! Alas, given my necessity for anonymity, which of course is a sign of obsession, I am afraid is a matter of trust on my words and my facts how much of a lunatic and sane I am. There is no shame to rely on your judgment and not your prejudice! one could argue at least...
Before I go on the hunt for some arguments, I would like here to examine a hypothesis! Imagine that there is something we really do not want to see! Imagine we stubbornly will go to any extent to avoid seeing that thing! Which thing you may ask? The thing we do not want to see, name it to talk about! Because it makes us so embarrassed! My god, that our cheeks do not even blush, we just froze in terror in the thought of that Voldemort thing.
hmm... Please, here I would like you to try something! Think of a personal experience that makes you very shameful... it doesn't have to be something very important! One personal experience for example for me it was when I accidentally ate the salad of a guy with OCD on micro-phobia. Today, it's more like a story to joke about, but the shouting of that day... makes me still trying to forget it... Forget?
That's what shame does! Things that have been touched by guilt trade, we try to hide them from everyone else. Then we try to hide them from ourselves... and then we succeed to hide it from our consciousness! Suddenly we do things, we do not notice... cause our brain hides it from us! It literally doe that! Of course, here one could assume, that is a personal experience that I generalize! Sensible thought, but I have not encountered a human being that doesn't do so... yet!
I try to point out, that Shame-Guilt-Fear, hmm, S-Matrix, I will call it. The S-matrix modifies our perception ability and especially to be able to observe truthfully ourselves! The S-matrix, or alienation as it is called by Marx, it enters within. We alienate with our selves! We feel so much of guilt that we feel uncomfortable even with ourselves! And that's ok! We can change that! None needs to know at the moment! We are safe.
Here it's the rule number 2! Accept, love, forgive, or Fuck them and AFL! The alternative, at least for me, it was self-punishment! What else could be the solution for a system that is based on treat and punishment? Today, I will not argue how our justice system should work! But I incline towards Norway.
However, I will argue about how this system is not working in our everyday lives! Because since childhood, we are used to a treat/punishment for good and bad things we do! At least some of us... Hence, we are not ready to accept good things that could happen in our life or trying to equate the sense of guilt we carry with self-punishment routines. One self-punishment routine, it's the procrastination, S-matrix also hides how the procrastination will result in my life, depriving me of time and resources!
Of course, such a system does have it's golden boys! Some people got the confirmation from their closed society, rose to become stars... or somebody! Hence they walked into the ranking of 4.7 stars (I am referring to black mirror episode, Nosedive, Genious!). There they feel untouched and relatively free... like a wild animal that got outside S-matrix. I guess to live in a system without being self-aware of the system it's one way to define a lesser mind, an animal. I am not calling those people animals! But I think it's a rational conclusion to sympathize that those people suddenly lived in a new society, a new garden, an invisible wall changing their lives. None was prepared what exactly and why... but with much fewer rules and so many new ones. Hence they end up being... hmm full of themselves. Feeling like society does love and praise them, they have none to justify or excuse themselves.
Can you though convince someone that he is still a human when a whole society is praising them? Hard... some were risen by their good works, some out of self-justification and people who believed in that... like Donald Trump. Here I recommend you to listen to the Hercules love affair, blind!
But again this position is not self-sustained, a ruler needs someone to give him authority... you are the one that names the king with the power... and there is the second madness... who is the ruler and who is the servant?
Big discussion! Furthermore, it will illuminate the system we live now... the S-matrix! But let's focus on our alternative! Our way out pill! If we pull ourselves from this trading system and instead of using confirmation currency we use AFL we are free! oh yes! We can see the whole of us! We won't be afraid or ashamed! And when we are, we will accept it, love that part and forgive it. We can examine if we want to change it or not. But such decisions should be based on ourselves needs and not on what other people want. Why? Because other people at this point are susceptible to S-matrix. S-matrix has a suppressing momentum for its individuals! It's like every molecule of a body, every node of a neural network, the basic digit of an ensemble is suppressed, does not find its true potential.
Not even in a productive way I am afraid. It doesn't produce more farmers or doctors because society needs them. Produces introverted isolated individuals that do isolate even within themselves. We are social creatures! I do not imply a communist society or a society without the need for privacy! On the contrary, privacy should be a space that we communicate with ourselves and not find shelter away from everyone else, including ourselves.
The S-matrix affects everyone from small to big interactions. And here I will start concluding this article! Our brains magnificent computers provided by nature! With adaptivity to outside experience to reach more efficient states of processing! But this complexity is described again by simple decision making routines! Big problems of which toothpaste you should buy reflect on the work you do, on the person you love on the ensemble of allowing yourself to be happy!
Indeed! the same criterion of your toothpaste choice or that you are reading/listening to this text right now is connected with how much you allow yourself to reach the eudaimonic state! Well if I am the appropriate agent... time will show, but I truly wish these thoughts are to everyone benefits. Even f they are not, I presume they can help how things should not be seen! Hence, it's a win-win situation. But careful... win-win is based on trade, but AFL just is open to discussion!
Hence my dear, fuck the S-matrix! Fuck this shit! Cause you can talk with yourself anytime, allow to see the whole of you! Reveal to your eyes all the sit backs your place to keep yourself down. Not in one go... take your time! it is ok! Our brains can take so much emotion! Find your way to trust yourself! And if you do trust yourself already, help your friends and the rest of society.
When we trust ourselves more we will be able to trust what other people can do and can not do for us! How a society, an interconnected network that passes information through every node, like yourself! will get better if the nodes themselves do not become better? By accepting loving and forgiving ourselves we will make a quantifiable difference to our lives. The thing we need! For some, it could be money and fame, but even then it will be the creativity and just money and fame will be the bonus! Cause you walk aware of the new garden... you won't be a wild animal, but a human, a child that just wants to play and paint!
I trust me hence I know how to trust you!
Love
Adam.
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