The road to love goes through being successful, A guide to being successful!; Have plenty belief in yourself: Part 3
I'm sorry, I'm not sure what you're trying to say in your last statement. Can you please rephrase or provide more context for me to understand? It seems like you are discussing the concept of S-matrix and its impact on our understanding of reality, and how it affects our emotions such as shame, guilt, and fear. You mention the importance of being flexible and having a belief or faith in oneself, but it's not clear how this relates to the previous discussion. Can you please clarify?
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I would like to conclude with the prelude on S-matrix. Since the shame field does not stop affecting my life and as I presume your life too, it will be keep mentioned. But today I want to cover rule number 3!
However, I want to be a touch a more transparent, a bit more innocent here. I am still trying to enforce what I am preaching in here. This though does not lower my credibility since a smoker is entitled to prevent you from smoking as a non-smoker. To whom am I justifying with this statement? To you or to me? I will go for common sense. Cause common sense, and some may agree, it is rather uncommon but also sometimes vague!
The shortage of common sense again is to be blamed on the S-matrix! I truly wish or in this case, I may even dare to say hope! This is because for one more time I do need to repeat myself. Shame-guilt-fear act as an invisible cloak! Clouds covering the sun, veil in our eyes! Man, you truly miss information, miss things, facts, do not see things! But this understanding indeed comes with experience!!
I am not trying to brag that I know something you don't! I will load a quote from the Dude, Socrates! Only one thing I know, that I don't know! A bit of a reshape of this quote could be, one thing I see, I do not see! Hence, it will be delusional to even put me in a higher ground than anyone else. The acknowledgment of the S-matrix is just opening me the possibility to be able to see more of life, more of myself! Fewer taboos with me as well!
Consequently, today in 2019, I find myself typing, with a number of things I am blindfolded too! Things that can make me better at work, at love, maybe in this blog, to me and to you! If for a moment we quantify the blinkers I own, maybe they are more (or less) than other people, who did not have yet the necessity to walk this path! The only extra thing I am debating all this time, that's how I hide my things under my bed... with Shame. I welcome you to examine if you do the same!
Rehearing my previous post, which so far I admit, I am my sole audience! But indeed, as aforementioned, I also try to understand what I am saying! I have a feeling I do remain very generic! I describe labels, which in some sense are sensible but are untrivial how to adapt them in someone else's life! In other words... it is like saying to someone who is stressed, "Hey, relax!". Impressive wisdom, none of the stressed people of this world ever thought of it... um...! Ok! So I will try to be a bit more specific and maybe again personal!
In a nutshell, we need to see the life as a half-full glass! Maybe it's our greedy nature, maybe it's because we are dreamers. A healthy mind is almost happy! Almost sure, almost full! Why? well, because c'est la vie! We are wavefunctions... waves of desires and creativity, that have many fronts in this life! Nature in its core, it's just small bullets of energy that spin and orbit or travel! But at the same time, those bullets are waves that spread in space, in the shores of reality! So it has been observed that quantum bodies are probably here and less probably around the probably here! and a bit less probably around the less probably around the probably here!
I am not trying to confuse you, but indeed this is what quantum mechanics talk about: Probably, Almost! But this probably it's a very tiny space! From our perspective and in many applications this probably is exactly that space more or less! It's like wondering if a tennis ball has a diameter of 6.55 cm or 6.5500005 cm! And this nonsensible probably here and less probably here... humanity may have not comprehended... we do not! But we do use it beautifully! Schroedinger equation it may be one of the most beautiful human's inventions, a lasso to the incomprehensible!
How do we get to live after this? Well, we certainly have the ability to use things we do not understand and layers of understanding can be expanded around the incomprehensible! After all, it is not like we understand what life is... right? And as an electron or a quantum body is almost a particle or almost a wave depends on the system, we can also be flexible! Be almost sure or happy, be what the current time needs! Hence flexible.
Here though, be careful, almost sure... does not mean stubborn! Means I have a belief or faith that I will understand the right outcome! I take care of myself. Believe is your potential to find the state your wavefunction, your well being is! In the last article, I described how I think the golden children of this society when being raised are getting lost in this new freedom! And I skipped a chapter that I still do not understand fully! Believe in yourself!
Some rationality around the label of believing in yourself is needed of course! or again all I am saying is "relax..."! Well, believe you will accept, love and forgive yourself when you can not just yet or this way! This will remove the stress and anxiety! Stress is a biological function that it was developed in our brains to escape tigers. When our ancestors were encountering a beast... the brain was making a reality lock.... brain will stop processing external triggers! Veil reality to the absolute essentials! All the information you need is, the tiger will eat me, fuck run! Adrenaline also released to have a surplus of muscle power!
Hence, you can recall fewer memories, less experience, less problem-solving. Exactly here my friend it's modern society problem. Stress was meant to be used in case of a tiger emergency, not dealing with your boss or social life. Permanent stress, disconnects you from the stories of achievement, from the knowledge you have! Exams fail, tasks fail, the taste of life fails! Tiger is nowhere to run away!
So... relax? Sure but how? Well right now, the best tip I have to give you ask yourself everything you do! Why did I do this, why I have said this. Why this happened to me. There is always a self-responsibility in what goes there, do not worry! It's your knowledge, not anyone else. Communicate it first with you, accept, love it and forgive it. Discuss it with someone close, pick someone who will be understanding! He or she doesn't have to say actually something, but to AFL which means just hug you. Everything will be ok, everything is ok.
No matter the tiger, remember you will take care of yourself and you will not be eaten at least literally. If everything goes wrong you can join a monastery. Hence you have time until plan-Z! Create a distance between the tiger and yourself. This breathing air will unlock your memory banks, will improve your taste of life! Importantly will open your emotional horizon, the emotional taste of your decisions! Do live free from the fear to observe yourself and your actions! You will be prepared and you will have more understanding of why you do or can not do something else than anyone else.
When you encounter something you can not do, trust yourself, love yourself and dive to see why you can not! You do not have to contemplate your limitations on the crime scene, but safe at home. Take your time and see yourself naked... it needs a hug first from you. Because it is fear, accept, love and forgive.
With time... I do not know how much. For me is when I could see how shame is connected to the majority of my life problems, how it created the deficit of courage! Because courage it is the solution to my problem. S-matrix was veiling the solution from me and still does. In some case I do see it, in some other cases I have not seen it yet. It is ok, I do love myself and forgive me. I know how much I suffered or struggled better than anyone else. I observed that it was also unnecessary cause it limits the fertile acts of my life to have more resources for me and for you.
So, to converge from wavefunctions and quantum mechanics to the atom of this society. You or me! S-matrix even neurologically hides the actual solution of us. It informs us of the wrong scenarios, unplugs us from the success stories of our life (a half-full glass) and reminds me of destruction scenarios that have not been materialized yet, without reminding us that we can go to a monastery! Hence, a suffocating scenario, a maze with no exit!
But let us be quantum wavefunction, remind us alternative ways of living! Add an emotional positive momentum to ourselves! While we observe ourselves and see every act with understanding, let us be the mentor we need. The one that encourages us, let encourage other people to believe themselves. The stars that rose in this society had a self-belief formed by their surrounding. Did you allow this to yourself? OR you were stressed and could not recall it. It is ok, all you need is yourself to believe into. On the way, you will recall people believing in you and people will show their trust into you. But this is unnecessary, you need sincerity with yourself! Self-believe, self-love! It is essential! The rest of the people of your surrounding are belonging to the S-matrix, they benefit from trade relationships, they will not be generous! But using AFL, you can be generous, you can be a beacon for your surrounding, they need it!
Because as we walk away from puberty, we do not stop being adolescents, we are just afraid to be innocent and fresh, adulthood is not an experienced teenager but a full of doubt and fear scared child. As Νietzsche said, doubt poisons everything but doesn't kill anything. Well, fuck it! You are alive, do not drink it anymore. Self monitor yourself, always pet yourself! Better than a slap, look at Donald Trump, in his narrow perspective he is happy... well just pick up the happy part! But also remind yourself of the self-monitoring state about what other people feel and not say! It is essential!
This is why, when you fall in bed, be happy and sure! When you wake up experience life, be almost certain and almost happy! Until a specific moment, you did not know any better. Every moment can be a moment you know better and more almost certain. But while in bed, change your wavefunction and be certain! Everyone deserves that! We are not solid just solid bodies, we are also waves! It is up to us to allow the environment or our consciousness to shape us! What we need is AFL and believe together! Hence rule 3: Have plenty belief into yourself,
I will switch my wavefunction to love me and in the shape, I can also
love you
Adam
Hey there
I would like to conclude with the prelude on S-matrix. Since the shame field does not stop affecting my life and as I presume your life too, it will be keep mentioned. But today I want to cover rule number 3!
However, I want to be a touch a more transparent, a bit more innocent here. I am still trying to enforce what I am preaching in here. This though does not lower my credibility since a smoker is entitled to prevent you from smoking as a non-smoker. To whom am I justifying with this statement? To you or to me? I will go for common sense. Cause common sense, and some may agree, it is rather uncommon but also sometimes vague!
The shortage of common sense again is to be blamed on the S-matrix! I truly wish or in this case, I may even dare to say hope! This is because for one more time I do need to repeat myself. Shame-guilt-fear act as an invisible cloak! Clouds covering the sun, veil in our eyes! Man, you truly miss information, miss things, facts, do not see things! But this understanding indeed comes with experience!!
I am not trying to brag that I know something you don't! I will load a quote from the Dude, Socrates! Only one thing I know, that I don't know! A bit of a reshape of this quote could be, one thing I see, I do not see! Hence, it will be delusional to even put me in a higher ground than anyone else. The acknowledgment of the S-matrix is just opening me the possibility to be able to see more of life, more of myself! Fewer taboos with me as well!
Consequently, today in 2019, I find myself typing, with a number of things I am blindfolded too! Things that can make me better at work, at love, maybe in this blog, to me and to you! If for a moment we quantify the blinkers I own, maybe they are more (or less) than other people, who did not have yet the necessity to walk this path! The only extra thing I am debating all this time, that's how I hide my things under my bed... with Shame. I welcome you to examine if you do the same!
Rehearing my previous post, which so far I admit, I am my sole audience! But indeed, as aforementioned, I also try to understand what I am saying! I have a feeling I do remain very generic! I describe labels, which in some sense are sensible but are untrivial how to adapt them in someone else's life! In other words... it is like saying to someone who is stressed, "Hey, relax!". Impressive wisdom, none of the stressed people of this world ever thought of it... um...! Ok! So I will try to be a bit more specific and maybe again personal!
In a nutshell, we need to see the life as a half-full glass! Maybe it's our greedy nature, maybe it's because we are dreamers. A healthy mind is almost happy! Almost sure, almost full! Why? well, because c'est la vie! We are wavefunctions... waves of desires and creativity, that have many fronts in this life! Nature in its core, it's just small bullets of energy that spin and orbit or travel! But at the same time, those bullets are waves that spread in space, in the shores of reality! So it has been observed that quantum bodies are probably here and less probably around the probably here! and a bit less probably around the less probably around the probably here!
I am not trying to confuse you, but indeed this is what quantum mechanics talk about: Probably, Almost! But this probably it's a very tiny space! From our perspective and in many applications this probably is exactly that space more or less! It's like wondering if a tennis ball has a diameter of 6.55 cm or 6.5500005 cm! And this nonsensible probably here and less probably here... humanity may have not comprehended... we do not! But we do use it beautifully! Schroedinger equation it may be one of the most beautiful human's inventions, a lasso to the incomprehensible!
How do we get to live after this? Well, we certainly have the ability to use things we do not understand and layers of understanding can be expanded around the incomprehensible! After all, it is not like we understand what life is... right? And as an electron or a quantum body is almost a particle or almost a wave depends on the system, we can also be flexible! Be almost sure or happy, be what the current time needs! Hence flexible.
Here though, be careful, almost sure... does not mean stubborn! Means I have a belief or faith that I will understand the right outcome! I take care of myself. Believe is your potential to find the state your wavefunction, your well being is! In the last article, I described how I think the golden children of this society when being raised are getting lost in this new freedom! And I skipped a chapter that I still do not understand fully! Believe in yourself!
Some rationality around the label of believing in yourself is needed of course! or again all I am saying is "relax..."! Well, believe you will accept, love and forgive yourself when you can not just yet or this way! This will remove the stress and anxiety! Stress is a biological function that it was developed in our brains to escape tigers. When our ancestors were encountering a beast... the brain was making a reality lock.... brain will stop processing external triggers! Veil reality to the absolute essentials! All the information you need is, the tiger will eat me, fuck run! Adrenaline also released to have a surplus of muscle power!
Hence, you can recall fewer memories, less experience, less problem-solving. Exactly here my friend it's modern society problem. Stress was meant to be used in case of a tiger emergency, not dealing with your boss or social life. Permanent stress, disconnects you from the stories of achievement, from the knowledge you have! Exams fail, tasks fail, the taste of life fails! Tiger is nowhere to run away!
So... relax? Sure but how? Well right now, the best tip I have to give you ask yourself everything you do! Why did I do this, why I have said this. Why this happened to me. There is always a self-responsibility in what goes there, do not worry! It's your knowledge, not anyone else. Communicate it first with you, accept, love it and forgive it. Discuss it with someone close, pick someone who will be understanding! He or she doesn't have to say actually something, but to AFL which means just hug you. Everything will be ok, everything is ok.
No matter the tiger, remember you will take care of yourself and you will not be eaten at least literally. If everything goes wrong you can join a monastery. Hence you have time until plan-Z! Create a distance between the tiger and yourself. This breathing air will unlock your memory banks, will improve your taste of life! Importantly will open your emotional horizon, the emotional taste of your decisions! Do live free from the fear to observe yourself and your actions! You will be prepared and you will have more understanding of why you do or can not do something else than anyone else.
When you encounter something you can not do, trust yourself, love yourself and dive to see why you can not! You do not have to contemplate your limitations on the crime scene, but safe at home. Take your time and see yourself naked... it needs a hug first from you. Because it is fear, accept, love and forgive.
With time... I do not know how much. For me is when I could see how shame is connected to the majority of my life problems, how it created the deficit of courage! Because courage it is the solution to my problem. S-matrix was veiling the solution from me and still does. In some case I do see it, in some other cases I have not seen it yet. It is ok, I do love myself and forgive me. I know how much I suffered or struggled better than anyone else. I observed that it was also unnecessary cause it limits the fertile acts of my life to have more resources for me and for you.
So, to converge from wavefunctions and quantum mechanics to the atom of this society. You or me! S-matrix even neurologically hides the actual solution of us. It informs us of the wrong scenarios, unplugs us from the success stories of our life (a half-full glass) and reminds me of destruction scenarios that have not been materialized yet, without reminding us that we can go to a monastery! Hence, a suffocating scenario, a maze with no exit!
But let us be quantum wavefunction, remind us alternative ways of living! Add an emotional positive momentum to ourselves! While we observe ourselves and see every act with understanding, let us be the mentor we need. The one that encourages us, let encourage other people to believe themselves. The stars that rose in this society had a self-belief formed by their surrounding. Did you allow this to yourself? OR you were stressed and could not recall it. It is ok, all you need is yourself to believe into. On the way, you will recall people believing in you and people will show their trust into you. But this is unnecessary, you need sincerity with yourself! Self-believe, self-love! It is essential! The rest of the people of your surrounding are belonging to the S-matrix, they benefit from trade relationships, they will not be generous! But using AFL, you can be generous, you can be a beacon for your surrounding, they need it!
Because as we walk away from puberty, we do not stop being adolescents, we are just afraid to be innocent and fresh, adulthood is not an experienced teenager but a full of doubt and fear scared child. As Νietzsche said, doubt poisons everything but doesn't kill anything. Well, fuck it! You are alive, do not drink it anymore. Self monitor yourself, always pet yourself! Better than a slap, look at Donald Trump, in his narrow perspective he is happy... well just pick up the happy part! But also remind yourself of the self-monitoring state about what other people feel and not say! It is essential!
This is why, when you fall in bed, be happy and sure! When you wake up experience life, be almost certain and almost happy! Until a specific moment, you did not know any better. Every moment can be a moment you know better and more almost certain. But while in bed, change your wavefunction and be certain! Everyone deserves that! We are not solid just solid bodies, we are also waves! It is up to us to allow the environment or our consciousness to shape us! What we need is AFL and believe together! Hence rule 3: Have plenty belief into yourself,
I will switch my wavefunction to love me and in the shape, I can also
love you
Adam
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